Displaying items by tag: relationships with self

Saturday, 04 October 2025 11:25

Love Begins With Us

Things I Used to Tell Myself:

 

  1. Keep yourself small. Don’t attract so much attention or people will find out how imperfect you are.
  2. Be careful about speaking up. Your opinions don’t matter.
  3. Try to be as good as others in looks and achievements. That's the only way you will be loved and happy.
  4. You aren’t smart or good enough unless you get all A’s. Make lots of money. Keep your body thin.
  5. You have to prove yourself to be loved. You aren’t inherently worthy of it without something tangent that can be seen.
Published in Relationships
Friday, 02 February 2024 14:03

Transitions

I started this website to focus on loss and the complicated relationship it has with grief, depression, and loneliness. The rollercoaster of emotions that naturally comes along with losing a loved one or something in your life that you cared deeply about sends you to parts of yourself that you would rather forget existed. The grief inevitably brings out feelings that once lay dormant and then hijacks every part of your body, brain, and heart.

I have also written about how I have learned to use new-found tools and support from others to overcome the challenges and paralyzing effects grief creates. From podcasts I have listened to, to books I have read, to supportive friends, family, colleagues and healing retreats, I spent the better part of two years trying to figure out how to heal.

Published in Personal Development
Saturday, 13 May 2023 15:49

On Rejection

Rejection happens to everyone. It can come in the form of being overlooked for a promotion or being turned down by a potential date. Rejection happens to me quite frequently. This type of rejection is not work related, relationship related, or health related. It’s the rejection that comes from literary magazines where I send a piece of myself, of my writing, to potentially be shared with a bigger audience. No one else, except for me, or a few close people I choose to share it with, know about it.

Published in Personal Development

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